Good and a good

Good parenting.. and a good human..

2017-10-12 17:45:27 by SekarGV

*Osho on parenting*:
You will be gone
soon but the children will be here
And nobody can
manage anybody else's life though they are with you,
yet they belong not to you
You may give them
your love but not
your thoughts for they have their own thoughts
You may house their
bodies but not their
souls, for their souls
dwell in the house of
which you
cannot visit even in
your dreams

God will take care

It is none of our
business to be too concerned

Whatsoever we can
do, we do, but one
should not hanker
about things going the way one wants

That is very egoistic

You have given birth
to a child, but once
he is out of the womb he is free of you
First he depended for his breath on you
when he was in the
Then he will take his
own breath

You don't say

'What are you doing?
Are you trying to be
free of me? Trying to be independent?'

You feel happy that
your child is breathing

First he will take milk
from you, then one
day he will start
eating on his own

First he will go on
clinging to your
apron and then one
day he will leave it

You will be happy
because the child is
growing, becoming

Then finally one day he falls in love with a woman

He has found his
woman, so he will go
on his own way

Bless them, and
whatsoever happens
they have to find their own life and their own meaning to life.

Now you are free.

Just try to find your
meaning, your life,
your goals, and
devote the few days
that are left to the
search of the ultimate.

Don't be concerned
with ordinary things

I have never seen a
single parent who is
happy about their

Nobody is ever happy.

Even the father of Buddha was not happy. He was very very annoyed because his son turned out to be a beggar. He became a sannyasi and the father was hoping he would become an emperor

He crushed all his
father's hopes

One thing is certain
-- that the child is not here to fulfill your expectations

The child is here with his own destiny, and he will unfold his own destiny. You are trying somehow to direct his destiny
and that is going to
be frustrating.

So if the child
becomes a thief or a
murderer, of course
the parents feel bad,
and it looks logical.

But even if he
becomes a Jesus or
a Buddha, then too
they feel frustrated
because they have
their own ideas and
the children try to do their own thing

Accept it and bless

They have to find their own ways

Who are we to
And how can we?

Pray for them but
leave them on their
You try to grow yourself...

2017-07-28 10:44:45 by SekarGV

Addition to mobile Avoid children using mobile Save

Addition to mobile phones.. Avoid children using mobile phones.. Save children..

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2017-06-26 11:27:45 by SekarGV

Educate your children to be

Educate your children to be happy..

2016-12-16 17:28:11 by thulasi

Encourage your child

Encourage your child

2016-10-21 18:13:22 by arul unique

Vacation plan for parents

Vacation plan for parents

2016-07-22 20:03:59 by GJSenthil

One of the most powerful art

One of the most powerful art

2016-06-30 18:45:20 by Vino

A beautiful post ..............from one mother to another mother

Forwaded as received ....

There were days when My home used to be filled with laughter, arguments, fights, jokes and loads of mischief.
Books used to be strewn all over the show. Pens and books all over, and clothes messing the rooms, thrown on the beds.
I used to shout at them to tidy up their mess.

In the morning:

One will wake up and say:
Mama I can't find a certain book.
And the other will say: I can't find my perfume,
And one will say: Mama where's my homework.
And will say: Mama I forgot to complete my homework.

Everyone used to ask about their lost possessions.
And I will say, but take care of your stuff, be responsible, you have to grow up.

And today I stand at the doorway of the room.
The beds are empty.
All the cupboards have only a few pieces of clothes in them.
And what remains is the smell of perfume that lingers in the air.
Everyone had a special smell.
So I take in the smell of their perfume for maybe it will fill the empty ache in my heart.

All I have now is the memory of their laughs and their mischief and their warm hugs.

Today my house is clean and organized and everything is in its place, and it is calm and peaceful.
But it is like a desert with no life in it. Do not become angry with your kids about the mess.

Every time they come to visit and they spend time with us, when they are ready to leave. They pull their bags and it is as if they tug my heart along with it.

They close the door behind them and then I stand still and think of the many times I shouted them to close the doors.

Here I am today, closing my own doors. Nobody opens it besides me. Each one gone to a different city or a different country.
All left to find their own path in life.

They have grown up and I wished that they could stay with me forever.
Oh! God
..... Take care of them & all other children wherever they may be , for you are their guide and their protector
...and always keep them happy.

2016-06-03 15:37:20 by Sanju

Dont spit your words on children

Don't spit your words on children

2016-06-01 11:13:06 by Sasi
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